If you’ve noticed that more and more oodles these days seem to suffer from anxiety, reactivity, or behavioural quirks, you’re not imagining it. Talk to any trainer, behaviourist, or vet, and they’ll tell you it’s a growing issue. But why? Oodles have been living alongside humans for decades — so what’s changed?

The truth is, our modern lifestyles and expectations have created a very different world for our oodles than the one their ancestors knew. And while we love to treat them like family (which is wonderful), it can sometimes clash with what they actually need as a species.

Let’s unpack why so many oodles are struggling in today’s world.

1. Unrealistic Expectations of ‘Pet Oodle’ Behaviour

Oodles were originally bred to be clever, active, loyal companions — many with working dog ancestry through their Poodle, Spaniel, or Retriever heritage. These breeds were designed to think, problem-solve, and stay busy.

Today:
Most oodles are expected to be quiet, well-behaved, endlessly tolerant companions who happily nap while we’re out for hours, cope with constant noise, socialise perfectly with every other dog they meet, and never bark, chew, or dig.

The problem:
We’ve kept the breed traits, instincts, and energy levels, but removed the jobs.

Example:
A Cavoodle with Poodle smarts and Spaniel energy might be left alone in a small backyard for eight hours a day. It’s no wonder so many become anxious, vocal, or destructive.

2. Lack of Proper Socialisation

Oodle puppies have a critical socialisation window (roughly between 3 and 16 weeks of age) where positive experiences with people, other dogs, sounds, and environments help shape their future confidence.

Modern issue:
Many oodles don’t get adequate or positive socialisation during this vital period. Some miss out due to busy schedules, misinformation about vaccine restrictions, or breeders who don’t start early.

Example:
An oodle puppy raised indoors without exposure to traffic, people, or other dogs may grow up fearful of everything unfamiliar.

3. Overdependence on Owners (Separation Anxiety)

Oodles are famously people-oriented, often nicknamed ‘velcro dogs’ for how closely they bond with their owners. While this makes them incredibly loving companions, it can also lead to anxiety when left alone.

Result:
When separated from their people, even for short periods, some oodles experience panic, leading to barking, destructive behaviour, or escape attempts.

Example:
A pandemic puppy raised during lockdown, rarely left alone, may develop severe separation anxiety once life returns to normal.

4. Not Enough Mental and Physical Stimulation

Oodles are intelligent, active dogs. They need more than a daily walk. Boredom is one of the biggest contributors to anxiety, nuisance behaviours, and frustration.

Modern problem:
Many oodles get a quick lead walk around the block and spend the rest of the day unstimulated. Without outlets for their brain and body, issues like barking, digging, and reactivity surface.

Example:
A Groodle without fetch, scent games, or puzzle toys is likely to find its own (usually destructive) entertainment.

5. Breeding for Looks Over Temperament

With oodles’ rising popularity, some breeders have prioritised appearance — like a teddy bear face or particular coat type — over balanced, stable temperaments.

Example:
A badly bred oodle from a puppy farm might look adorable but lack emotional resilience, making them more prone to anxiety, reactivity, and stress in unfamiliar situations.

6. Busy, Noisy, Overstimulating Environments

Our cities and suburbs are full of traffic, loud noises, constant movement, and unfamiliar people and dogs. For a sensitive, intuitive breed like the oodle, this can be overwhelming.

Example:
An oodle exposed to constant construction noise, crowded parks, and strangers approaching on every walk may become hypervigilant and reactive.

7. Human Misunderstanding of Canine Body Language

Many behavioural issues stem from owners missing early signs of stress, fear, or frustration in their oodles. We often treat them like tiny humans, forgetting their needs and communication style are different.

Example:
An oodle that growls when hugged is often punished for it, when it’s actually giving a clear warning that it’s uncomfortable — leading to suppressed signals and eventual escalation.

Our oodles aren’t broken — the world we’ve built around them just isn’t always oodle-friendly. The good news is, with education, enrichment, and realistic expectations, we can dramatically improve their quality of life and reduce anxiety-driven behaviour.

Key takeaways:

  • Choose oodles whose breed traits suit your lifestyle.
  • Prioritise early, positive socialisation.
  • Give oodles outlets for both mental and physical energy.
  • Learn to read and respect canine body language.
  • Avoid humanising oodles in ways that deny their natural instincts.
  • Seek professional advice early if issues arise.

A happier, calmer, and more balanced oodle is absolutely possible — but it starts with us understanding what they actually need.

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